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any fans of Strangers With Candy?
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here is the moving version
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Note to self:

Self! The next time you go and buy the 36' x 107" roll of seamless background paper, you might want to think ahead and not be surprised when the bus driver won't let you on with a tube paper that's almost 9 feet long forcing you to walk home from Bernal Heights to the Lower Haight with it slung over your shoulder.
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Did I mention that I went to Trannyshack, the other night, for their annual tribute to Kate Bush?
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Current Music: Kate Bush: Leave It Open

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Seven completely naked men just strolled very casually past Joshua and I near the corner of 18th and Castro Street.

This must be San Francisco.

The last week has been a delicious whirlwind,and there hasn't been alot of time to post.

I saw a fair amount of the state of California in the last week,driving to LA from San Francisco and back,visitng Josh's parents,my 40th birthday at Disneyland.Yesterday we did some sightseeing around the Golden Gate bridge and the Marin Headlands on a sweltering hot day.I found myself unexpectedly on Black Sand Beach and flung myself into the ocean.I felt renewed when I emerged,the stroll along the beach being the first time I've had a moment to take stock in the last week.

The evening was capped off by being in the Castro during celebrations for the overturning of the gay marriage ban.

Today we went for a hike in Muir Woods where I saw my first real California redwoods and then a drive(while we still have the hire car)through Pacific Heights and over to Japantown.I wanted to visit the Super 7 Store and get some Japanese food.A short stroll through the Castro and we are back home exhausted.

We have taken an absolute ton of pics and I will get to posting them soon.Its been great to meet a few Livejournal folks in the flesh too!
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Gosh it was hot today. I took the opportunity to stop in the Castro for a quick bite of lunch. I noticed the line of news vans and the first thing I thought was that I hoped the mayor hadn't been shot.

When I heard someone mention that we could get married now I thought that I would settle for simply not being beat to death because I like to suck cock.

Current Music: Steve Miller Band: Swingtown

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Another reminder
Don't forget as you're making your wedding plans: I am an ordained minister too.
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Just keep swimming, just keep swimming.......
Sushi Tues went over really well and sorry to those guys who couldn’t make it. Sebo sushi turned out to be one of the most authentic sushi places I have ever been to. From the real Wasabi (instead of horseradish dyed) to the unusual types of fish (no California roll in sight) to the many different kinds of saki. It was delicious from head to toe.

We were regaled with stories of Japan and southeast asia by my friend Luke [info]sf_luke who has been there many times as SF’s most famous trolly dolly. Also Peter [info]peterinoakland managed to scarf down a ton of saki and I had to physically restrain him from taking off his clothes and dancing on the table. Next time I won’t….screw decorum.

I think we will do this again in a month. Everyone seemed enthusiastic about combing this with a trip to Kabuki Baths. There is a sushi place called “Ino” next door to it that is run by a sushi nazi. Seriously....If you ask for a California roll, he actually throws you out. I like that. I really do.

It most likely won’t be on a tues. I just like the alliteration of Sushi Tues. We can do it any time. I hope even more people will become involved. We could name it the SF Sushi Bears and then people can call us the rice queens. Just sayin.....

Current Mood: working

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The concluding paragraph
Via Towelroad:

Under the strict scrutiny standard, unlike the rational basis standard, in order to demonstrate the constitutional validity of a challenged statutory classification the state must establish (1) that the state interest intended to be served by the differential treatment not only is a constitutionally legitimate interest, but is a compelling state interest, and (2) that the differential treatment not only is reasonably related to but is necessary to serve that compelling state interest. Applying this standard to the statutory classification here at issue, we conclude that the purpose underlying differential treatment of opposite-sex and same-sex couples embodied in California’s current marriage statutes — the interest in retaining the traditional and well-established definition of marriage — cannot properly be viewed as a compelling state interest for purposes of the equal protection clause, or as necessary to serve such an interest.

"A number of factors lead us to this conclusion. First, the exclusion of same-sex couples from the designation of marriage clearly is not necessary in order to afford full protection to all of the rights and benefits that currently are enjoyed by married opposite-sex couples; permitting same-sex couples access to the designation of marriage will not deprive opposite-sex couples of any rights and will not alter the legal framework of the institution of marriage, because same-sex couples who choose to marry will be subject to the same obligations and duties that currently are imposed on married opposite-sex couples. Second, retaining the traditional definition of marriage and affording same-sex couples only a separate and differently named family relationship will, as a realistic matter, impose appreciable harm on same-sex couples and their children, because denying such couples access to the familiar and highly favored designation of marriage is likely to cast doubt on whether the official family relationship of same-sex couples enjoys dignity equal to that of opposite-sex couples. Third, because of the widespread disparagement that gay individuals historically have faced, it is all the more probable that excluding same-sex couples from the legal institution of marriage is likely to be viewed as reflecting an official view that their committed relationships are of lesser stature than the comparable relationships of opposite-sex couples. Finally, retaining the designation of marriage exclusively for opposite-sex couples and providing only a separate and distinct designation for same-sex couples may well have the effect of perpetuating a more general premise — now emphatically rejected by this state — that gay individuals and same-sex couples are in some respects “second-class citizens” who may, under the law, be treated differently from, and less favorably than, heterosexual individuals or opposite-sex couples. Under these circumstances, we cannot find that retention of the traditional definition of marriage constitutes a compelling state interest. Accordingly, we conclude that to the extent the current California statutory provisions limit marriage to opposite-sex couples, these statutes are unconstitutional."

(emphasis mine)
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Marriage
So.....

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